After trying out several approaches to love, dating and relationships, I think I’ve tapped into love, exactly how I want it to be. Wooo Hooo!

Several weeks back I posted an expanded version of Judy Kinney’s Recipe for Oooh Ahhh Love. I want to share the trimmed down version of this recipe with you again. This is the recipe I used to successfully attract the love I’ve desired. This recipe doesn’t care who you love and how long you’ve loved them! Just love away!

Judy Kinney’s OOOH AHHH LOVE: The Basics

ENJOY:

• feeling good, happy, and joyful
• what you want AND what you already have.
• days filled with “I love you”, “thank you”, joy and laughter.
• being relaxed and confident about attracting what you desire to your life.
• the process of meeting and getting to know other women.
• a range of relationships in your life- friends, lovers, day to day partners and any combination of these.

Mix all ingredients together, in any order. Stir when ever the mood feels right. Eat with a spoon, a fork, your hand or pick up the bowl and slurp. Share with others. Above all, ENJOY!!!

I still incorporate these practices and approaches daily. They are as vital now that I’m smack dab in the middle of love as they were when I sought a love connection.

But, I am forever a curious experimenter. I want to know what is possible with love. Can you imagine a relationship which is created and nourished as each person brings a fidelity to their own spirit? WOW! That’s my kind of love! I am currently using this statement by Adyashanti as I lean into and create the love I desire.

it’s having a certain fidelity to what you realize yourself to be. Having a fidelity to that internal silence, and just being willing to be what you are.

At any moment, am I actually an expression of - am I actually being - what I know to be true? It’s another one of those things that sounds very simple, until you might be by yourself, or especially where the spiritual rubber hits the road, which is in relationship — am I actually being what I know myself to be? Am I expressing what’s really true?” — Adyashanti

I look forward to connecting with you and your thoughts about My Recipe for OOOH AHHH Love and/or Adyashanti’s version of fidelity.

In the spirit of summer picnics, fun and love, I’ve developed my own little recipe for OOOOH AHHHHH Love. Like any good recipe, try it out, enjoy it often and feel free to make adjustments. This recipe doesn’t care who you love and how long you’ve been loving them! Just love away!

Judy Kinney’s Recipe for OOOOH AHHHHH Love

ENJOY:
feeling good, happy, and joyful
Ah, this ingredient is the foundation for life and for all other ingredients in this recipe. Trust what feels good to you and the other ingredients come to life with such ease.
The Law of Attraction brings you what you vibrate emotionally. Do you want feel good, happy connections with women? I do! Welcome feeling good as your guide for life and love.

what you want AND what you already have.
Heck yeah, life is your own personal candy store. There is no need to pretend you like soy chocolate when Belgium milk chocolate is what really stirs your taste buds. This is true for all aspects of your life, yes?

Being clear about what you like AND thankful for what you have, sends a clear and direct message to the universe. And you know, the universe only knows how to agree with you!

Not sure what you really want? Notice and act on what feels good.

days filled with “I love you”, “thank you”, joy and laughter.
This is my sentimental favorite ingredient. Talk to yourself, your animals, kids, friends, the grocery clerk and say “I love you” and “thank you” a zillion times during the day.
Can you see how these phrases create a fabulously loving energy? WOW, you’ll have the universe zeroing in on you with all sorts of love and kindness!

And laughing? This quote sums it up so well!

I’ve always thought that a big laugh is a really loud noise from the soul saying, “Ain’t that the truth.” ~Quincy Jones

being relaxed and confident about attracting what you desire to your life.
Relaxed and confident about love and dating? Sure! One easy way to step into this idea is to think of a time when you felt truly relaxed and confident. How does this relaxed confidence feel in your body? Now, imagine approaching love and romance with the same feeling. Yep! Just like that!

the process of meeting and getting to know other women.
This ingredient pairs really well with being relaxed and confident. If you know you’re going to have love like you desire, you’re free to enjoy meeting women. You will meet them online, at potlucks, a dance, the dog park or a gathering of friends. Who cares where you meet when you enjoy the process!

a range of relationships in your life- friends, lovers, day to day partners and any combination of these.
Meeting women under the guise of finding “the one” is stressful. And stress is just going to attract more stress, right? Is there a difference in your energy if your goal was to have a full and fabulous range of genuine relationships? Often we start off as one sort of relationship and often end up as another, right?

Last, but not least, enjoy
your life and engage with people who also love their life.
Look around, my friends, you’re smack dab in the middle of the best part! Whether it’s local or long distance friends, books, ezines, or classes, surround yourself with people who will support your dreams and have fabulous dreams of their own.

Ready to dig in?

Mix all ingredients together, in any order. Stir when ever the mood feels right. Eat with a spoon, a fork, your hand or pick up the bowl and slurp. Share with others.

Above all, ENJOY!!!

Ok, my epicurean, foodie, love pals. .. tell me how this recipe for oooh aaah love stirs YOUR taste buds!

Bon appetite!